For Christians, it really isn’t about gay marriage.

Okay…first off, I hate titles.  Insert “most” between “for” and “Christians” and it might be more correct.

NOTE:  These are my musings, reducing complicated things into something simple and totally ignores the many who straddle these two groups…but somehow they ring true to me, but may be sound totally of base for others.  But I wonder, is there something “right” in this, or am I totally off base?  What do you think???

Friday was a HUGE day in the history of this country as the Supreme Court decision marks a major point in our country.  There are plenty speaking to this.  Becky Johnson’s Facebook post says everything I wish I could say, and for those who love the ironic, John Stewart’s commentary is awesome.

But getting back to the point, the “debate” on if two individuals with the same body parts can get married is not about really about marriage, but about how we regard the Bible.

Is the Bible, God’s Word?  Does it encompass all of who God is and what God wants for us in plain language that is easily understood no matter your language, culture and time of birth?  Can it be decoded into Truth that is applicable to all humans, past, present and future?

Or is the Bible an expression of God’s Word, a revelation of God through Christ and a collection of stories over time of men and women’s relationship with God?



These two sides, of a very complicated spectrum, approach God and Scripture differently.  I have been in many discussions and witnessed many debates between the two, sometimes regarding denominational splits, other times over coffee.  Yet the two sides are two different sides.  Both holding strong convictions in their core beings that they are right.  Both seeing their way as the way to “Heaven”, as their way to God.

Gay marriage doesn’t stand on it’s own, but is wrapped around and in how we individually understand God.  It is one of many factors that are determined by our beliefs and Biblical interpretations.

While the people of this country must accept that heterosexual marriage is equal to homosexual marriage, that doesn’t mean that anyone is going to forced into believing that on a personal level.  Just as many men (and women) do not believe that men and women are equal, or when and how God created, or any other “controversy”.

Christians are all trying to do their best following Christ.  We just find ourselves on very different roads.

So I pray, just as our pastor elegantly prayed on Sunday morning, that we can approach each other with Grace, rather than hatred, fear and contempt.

I pray that we can honor that we are on different paths, but we are all trying to get to the same place – to God.  We need to uphold each other in our prayers, praying that we open our hearts, minds and spirits to God.  That we realize that we may be the one who is wrong, or partly wrong.  That we realize that we may all be wrong.  But at the same time, we all may be partly right, or we may all be right.

But really, does being “right” matter?

Isn’t what matters is that God loves us?  That it is God’s Grace that transforms us?

Isn’t what matters that we get out of the way of God’s Power to work?

I can joyfully tell you that many people with a wide range of Christian and non-Christian beliefs have strengthened my relationship with Christ.  Intentionally or unintentionally, they have become Christ’s hands and feet in unexpected ways.  And I thank God for sending them to me, to help me on this journey.

And ultimately, that is where I reside:  on a journey with the Spirit.

I may be on the right path heading to the pearly gates, or I may be on a path leading to the tormenting fires, but either way…my eyes are on God and that is all I can do.

That is all any of us Christians can do.  We need to set our eyes on God, and hope and pray that we are going the right direction, but whatever that direction is…we need to keep walking with Christ.

Walking with Christ.


Lord, life is in constant turmoil.  We are faced daily with things we don’t like and things we love.  We are faced with things that scare us, and things that make us dance.  Lord, help us all as we face each day.  Help us know You, and follow You.  As you have abounding Grace for us, help us have grace for ourselves and others.  Amen.




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A Summer of Intentional Living

Intentional SummerThis is our first summer in our new home, and it is already going by fast.

So I am trying to slow it down.

I take my time unpacking, deciding carefully on where the items should go, or if they should be donated.  I leave pictures off the walls until shelves are put up, and work on small DIY projects to make the space into our home.

We work on projects outside, moving thousands of rocks and putting in mulch, building a cut flower garden for our Princess, and trying out container vegetable gardening as we wait for time to put in the raised beds.  We watch the plants flourish, watering them from newly installed rain barrels.  And our children get so excited as they watch new flowers bloom or the peas reach higher towards the sky.

On nice evenings we eat out on the deck, watching the birds visiting the feeders not far away.  We sit and enjoy the peace, the children getting in a few more moments of play.

We take our time, and I listen to the breeze.

On a decently windy day the leaves of a neighbor’s trees rustle, their voices taking center stage.  A pair of ducks visit daily, feasting on the seeds the birds have shared.  And now and then a pheasant wanders through, or a deer.

I draw out the days and the moments, knowing there is so much I could do, but also knowing, that there is so much I would miss.

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